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> <channel><title>Comments on: Who Is in Your Driver&#8217;s Seat &#8211; or Do You Really Want to Be a Donkey?</title> <atom:link href="http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/</link> <description></description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 02:41:24 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3</generator> <item><title>By: Victimized &#171; serene simplicity</title><link>http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/comment-page-1/#comment-1621</link> <dc:creator>Victimized &#171; serene simplicity</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 18:34:43 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/#comment-1621</guid> <description>&lt;p&gt;[...] it boils down to this.  Either love the situation or change it.  You have the choice to do either.  You are never the victim.  Empower yourself and take responsibility.  Whatever happens, [...]&lt;/p&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] it boils down to this.  Either love the situation or change it.  You have the choice to do either.  You are never the victim.  Empower yourself and take responsibility.  Whatever happens, [...]</p>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Patrick</title><link>http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/comment-page-1/#comment-78</link> <dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 22:07:36 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/#comment-78</guid> <description>&lt;p&gt;@Madeleine: Sure, changing could have many options. You could change the situation, you could exchange people (fire &amp; hire) and much more.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But these 3 are the core routes you could choose between. The only other alternative is to not change anything and get depressed.
And it is a personal decision whether changing a job or changing the situation within a job is better for you.&lt;/p&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Madeleine: Sure, changing could have many options. You could change the situation, you could exchange people (fire &amp; hire) and much more.</p><p>But these 3 are the core routes you could choose between. The only other alternative is to not change anything and get depressed.
And it is a personal decision whether changing a job or changing the situation within a job is better for you.</p>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Madeleine</title><link>http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/comment-page-1/#comment-72</link> <dc:creator>Madeleine</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 17:28:02 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/#comment-72</guid> <description>&lt;p&gt;Patrick, Great discussion of taking personal responsibility and considering the options: change it, leave it, or love it. I also think the Change It and the Love It options have a lot of worthwhile sub-options which may not be so obvious at first.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For example, choosing the Change It option could involve (1) staying at your job but using it as a base to learn about and apply for better jobs at the same company (the old camel&#039;s-nose-in-the-tent strategy), or (2) taking classes to qualify for a different but related job--classes which may qualify for tuition reimbursement from your company.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The concept is to take advantage of some of the real benefits of your job and use them to help you move to  more satisfying, fulfulling work.&lt;/p&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patrick, Great discussion of taking personal responsibility and considering the options: change it, leave it, or love it. I also think the Change It and the Love It options have a lot of worthwhile sub-options which may not be so obvious at first.</p><p>For example, choosing the Change It option could involve (1) staying at your job but using it as a base to learn about and apply for better jobs at the same company (the old camel&#8217;s-nose-in-the-tent strategy), or (2) taking classes to qualify for a different but related job&#8211;classes which may qualify for tuition reimbursement from your company.</p><p>The concept is to take advantage of some of the real benefits of your job and use them to help you move to  more satisfying, fulfulling work.</p>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Patrick</title><link>http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/comment-page-1/#comment-27</link> <dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 12:00:16 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/#comment-27</guid> <description>&lt;p&gt;@Bakari: Nice to hear from you. Hope to get you inspired with my other articles as well.&lt;/p&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Bakari: Nice to hear from you. Hope to get you inspired with my other articles as well.</p>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Bakari</title><link>http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/comment-page-1/#comment-22</link> <dc:creator>Bakari</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 05:33:03 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/#comment-22</guid> <description>&lt;p&gt;Interesting. I like your approach to self development and look forward to checking out your blog further.&lt;/p&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting. I like your approach to self development and look forward to checking out your blog further.</p>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Patrick</title><link>http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/comment-page-1/#comment-15</link> <dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 15:58:30 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/#comment-15</guid> <description>&lt;p&gt;Hello Jai, thanks. I&#039;ve been on your site and ... wow ... instant subscribe :-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Looks like I might contemplate over your site, while you do the same on mine.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I might also try to go for brevity next time ... on the other hand I really prefer to complete my line of thought in one post. That&#039;s why I prefer to give a good heading structure to allow first scanning and then second pass diving into the details.&lt;/p&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Jai, thanks. I&#8217;ve been on your site and &#8230; wow &#8230; instant subscribe <img
src='http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><p>Looks like I might contemplate over your site, while you do the same on mine.</p><p>I might also try to go for brevity next time &#8230; on the other hand I really prefer to complete my line of thought in one post. That&#8217;s why I prefer to give a good heading structure to allow first scanning and then second pass diving into the details.</p>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Jai Kai - SharingSuccess.tv</title><link>http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/comment-page-1/#comment-14</link> <dc:creator>Jai Kai - SharingSuccess.tv</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:12:27 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.unwrapyourmind.com/who-is-in-your-drivers-seat-or-do-you-really-want-to-be-a-donkey/#comment-14</guid> <description>&lt;p&gt;Patrick - you have some very interesting ideas here. Definitely some stuff to conemplate. Thanks&lt;/p&gt; </description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patrick &#8211; you have some very interesting ideas here. Definitely some stuff to conemplate. Thanks</p>]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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